A practical guide

After a bereavement β€” the digital side

When someone passes away, their digital accounts, subscriptions, and online presence still exist and need attention. This guide covers what to do, in what order, and where to get help.

πŸ“‹ Before you start

This guide assumes you are a family member or executor. You will need a copy of the death certificate for most steps. If the estate is being handled by a solicitor, they may be able to assist with some of this.

It's worth working through the steps below reasonably promptly. Active accounts that nobody is monitoring can be vulnerable to spam, phishing attempts, or in some cases identity fraud β€” so closing or securing them sooner rather than later is good practice, as well as a practical step in managing someone's affairs.

You don't need to do everything in one day β€” work through it at a pace that's manageable for you.

Step 1 β€” Government services

Tell Us Once β€” notify multiple departments in one go

This is the single most important digital step and should be done within 28 days of registering the death.

πŸ›οΈ What is Tell Us Once?

Tell Us Once is a free UK government service that lets you report a death to multiple government departments simultaneously β€” instead of contacting each one separately. The registrar will give you a unique reference number when you register the death. You then use that number online or by phone.

It notifies: HMRC (tax, Child Benefit, Tax Credits) Β· DWP (State Pension, Universal Credit, other benefits) Β· DVLA (driving licence, vehicle keeper records) Β· Passport Office Β· Local council (Council Tax, Housing Benefit, Blue Badge, electoral register) Β· Armed Forces pension schemes where applicable.

You have 28 days from receiving your reference number to use it. If you miss this window, call the DWP Bereavement Helpline on 0800 151 2012 to stop pension and benefit payments and avoid overpayments you may later need to repay.

Use it online at gov.uk/after-a-death β†— or by phone on 0800 085 7308 (Mon–Fri 8am–6pm, Sat 9am–4pm).

Step 2 β€” Subscriptions & digital services

Cancel ongoing digital subscriptions

Streaming services, cloud storage, and other digital subscriptions will keep charging unless cancelled. This is something you can action relatively quickly and practically.

πŸ’· Banks, financial accounts & digital assets

This page focuses on digital accounts and online presence. For guidance on notifying banks, closing financial accounts, handling digital assets such as cryptocurrency, or dealing with the estate β€” these are best handled through official UK sources:

  • πŸ›οΈ GOV.UK β€” what to do after a death
    Covers probate, notifying banks, managing the estate, and benefits.
    gov.uk/after-a-death β†—
  • πŸ’¬ Citizens Advice β€” dealing with money after a death
    Free, impartial guidance on bank accounts, debts, wills, and probate.
    citizensadvice.org.uk β†—
  • πŸ’° MoneyHelper β€” bereavement and money
    Government-backed guidance on bank accounts, pensions, and financial steps after a bereavement.
    moneyhelper.org.uk β†—
  • 🏦 Your bank's bereavement team
    Every major UK bank has a dedicated bereavement service. Contact them directly β€” the number will be on the bank's website under "bereavement" or "deceased customer".
Step 3 β€” Social media & email

What to do with online accounts and profiles

Each platform has its own process. Most require a copy of the death certificate. You generally have three options for each account β€” close it, memorialise it, or download the data first.

Your three options for most accounts

Close / delete Permanently removes the account and all content. Usually irreversible.
Memorialise Keeps the profile visible as a memorial but prevents new logins or changes. Available on Facebook and Instagram.
Download data first Most platforms allow you to request an archive of photos, messages, and posts before closing the account. Do this before closing if there are photos or messages you want to keep.

Platform What you can do How to request
πŸ“˜ Facebook Memorialise Remove account Download data
You can also request a one-time download of photos and posts before removal.
facebook.com/help β†—
πŸ“Έ Instagram Memorialise Remove account
Requires proof of death and your relationship to the deceased.
help.instagram.com β†—
πŸ“§ Gmail / Google Close account Request content
Google's inactive account manager can grant access to selected data if set up in advance. Without it, access requires a formal request with death certificate.
support.google.com β†—
🍎 Apple ID / iCloud Close account Request data
Apple's Digital Legacy feature (if set up in advance) allows nominated contacts to access photos and files. Without it, access requires a court order in most cases.
support.apple.com β†—
πŸͺŸ Microsoft / Outlook Close account Request content
Microsoft will work with next of kin to provide access or close the account. Requires death certificate and proof of relationship.
support.microsoft.com β†—
πŸ’Ό LinkedIn Remove profile
LinkedIn will remove the profile on request from a family member. Provide the profile URL and a death certificate.
linkedin.com/help β†—
🐦 X (Twitter) Deactivate account
X will deactivate an account on request. Requires death certificate and proof you are an immediate family member or authorised representative.
help.twitter.com β†—
▢️ YouTube Close account Request videos
Handled through the Google process above.
support.google.com β†—
πŸ’¬ WhatsApp Close account
WhatsApp accounts are tied to a phone number. The account deactivates automatically after 120 days of inactivity. You can report it for earlier removal. Chat history stored on the phone remains accessible on the device.
whatsapp.com/contact β†—
Step 4 β€” Devices

Phones, laptops, and tablets

Checklist

Digital tasks β€” tick off as you go

Tap any item to mark it as done. Progress is saved on this device.

  • Use Tell Us Once at gov.uk within 28 days of registering the death
  • Search email inbox for subscription receipts and cancel active services
  • Cancel the TV Licence (0300 790 6113) and request any refund
  • Visit gov.uk/after-a-death for guidance on banks, estate, and financial accounts
  • Download photos from iCloud, Google Photos, or OneDrive before closing accounts
  • Decide whether to memorialise or remove Facebook / Instagram
  • Contact Google to request data or close Gmail / Google account
  • Contact Apple about Apple ID / iCloud account
  • Request removal of LinkedIn profile
  • Contact mobile network β€” cancel contract or transfer number
  • Back up devices, then factory reset before donating or recycling
Planning ahead

How to make it easier for the people you leave behind

The single most helpful thing anyone can do is leave a simple document with their account information. It does not need to include passwords β€” just enough for your family to know what exists.

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Keep a list of your accounts

A simple document β€” kept with your will or in a safe place your family knows about β€” listing which email address you use, which subscriptions are active, and which platforms you're on. No passwords needed, just the names.

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Set up a legacy contact

Both Apple and Google allow you to nominate someone who can access or download your data after you die. Apple calls it a Legacy Contact (Settings β†’ your name β†’ Legacy Contact). Google calls it the Inactive Account Manager (myaccount.google.com β†’ Data & Privacy). Facebook also has a Legacy Contact in security settings.

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Password manager access

If you use a password manager, consider how a trusted person could access it in an emergency. Most password managers β€” including Apple Keychain and Google Password Manager β€” have an emergency access or account recovery feature designed exactly for this situation.

Further help

Where to get support

Free Β· Government

GOV.UK β€” what to do after a death

The official government guide covering registering a death, Tell Us Once, benefits, and the full range of practical steps. The most authoritative starting point for everything.

Free Β· Financial guidance

MoneyHelper β€” bereavement & money

Government-backed guidance on the financial and legal steps after a bereavement β€” including bank accounts, pensions, and probate. Part of the Money and Pensions Service.

Free Β· Grief support

Cruse Bereavement Support

Free support for anyone dealing with grief, including a helpline and local groups. The practical steps in this guide are important, but so is your own wellbeing β€” both can be attended to.

πŸ“ž 0808 808 1677 cruse.org.uk β†—
Free Β· Probate guidance

Citizens Advice

Free, impartial advice on probate, wills, and the practical steps after a bereavement, including when you need a solicitor and when you don't.

Free Β· Digital legacy

Hospice UK β€” digital accounts guide

A compassionate, practical guide to handling digital accounts after a death, written by Hospice UK's bereavement support team.

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None of this needs to be done immediately. In the first days and weeks, focus on what matters most. The digital accounts will still be there when you are ready to deal with them β€” and most platforms are understanding when you explain the circumstances.